Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated…
Ahhh no no no don’t get me wrong pal I wasn’t mad at you D: I just hate the general feeling of misandry that permeates this website and the fact this post claims this bs is a fact. Tons and tons of boys don’t even know you’re supposed to bleed until they get told by girls. It’s not a myth- it’s just biology. You can bleed even without a hymen or have a superthick one and not bleed at all; if OP wanted to erase the concept of virginity, she didn’t choose the right words at all. She exposes her opinions as facts and doing this especially on this shitty website is the best way to spread confusion on such a delicate matter and with such words it only makes all men pass as assholes. Sometimes you bleed, sometimes you don’t. Sometimes your hymen breaks, sometimes it doesn’t. My grandma knew that. Gynecologists say that. I bled during a check, didn’t bleed the first time but it hurt as fuck, bled the tenth time and didn’t hurt. There are so many variations one can’t just say “You’re NOT supposed to bleed because that’s a myth bla bla bla men’s fault bla bla bla”. It’s not the same as some third world countries, where virginity is still important. I’m sorry if you thought I was mad at you ;_;
ahhh yes this site does take feminist to the extreme, to be honest. Its not even feminist, its plain man hating. I understand that they can be raist and murdurers , but so can women be. and just because a man is looking at you doesnt mean he wants to fuck you, like some so called feminists here say. And sadly, the way you dress can change an event. Obviously you’ll get stared at and get more wolf whistles if you wear a skirt so short your butt can be seen i mean lets be honest here . of course that is not an excuse for rape, but if you wear more revealing clothing people wont treat you seriously, thats a fact. i do consider myself a feminist, and i think all women are because lets be honest no woman wants to be threated inferiour just because she has a vagina. People should be mean to me because I am snarky and rude, not because I have a cunt, yanno?? BUT I also think that just because you have a vagina you shouldnt like, abuse of it like ”ooohhh im a girl i never buy myseldf drinks i cant lift that you pay for it blablablblabla” thats bullshit , men work hard for money as well and women really shouldnt abuse of their kindness like that. bottom line whats happening here on tumblr is not feminism its just plain man hating for the stupidest reasons like ”A MAN TOUCHED MY KNEE WHEN HE WAS PASSING BY BY ACCIDENT RAR I HATE MEN”
PREACH. I don’t get why so many feminists refuse to acknowledge that you have to protect yourself from rape. This world is fucked up, and there are many psychos out there. Telling a psycho (and why always a man, though? I got groped by a bunch of lesbians!) “don’t rape because it’s wrong” won’t solve anything. In fact, rapists don’t really care whether it’s wrong or not. Even murderers don’t care and it’s pretty obvious killing is wrong >_> I’ve had lots of bad experiences with feminism in general (an example: “not a feminist? so you like the idea of getting harassed”, neglecting the fact that I may or may have not been through abuse or harassment), plus feminism has never done anything in my country (except when rich feminists got the right to vote in 19th century, while 98% of the population couldn’t) so I don’t really identify as a feminist. I’m more for egalitarianism, it’s gender-neutral and generally critical of itself. Unfortunately Tumblr and the Internet in general convey tons of bullshit and misinformation and that’s why we have self proclaimed feminists that consider consensual piv sex as rape and laugh at “male tears”, denying that millions of men suffer on a daily basis. It’s so relieving to know there are still intelligent feminists like you that don’t label every person who disagrees a pig!